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		<title>Handbook of Structured Techniques in Marriage and Family Therapy</title>
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					<description><![CDATA[&#8220;Handbook of Structured Techniques in Marriage and Family Therapy&#8221;.Could not find image https://gaycouplecounselling.com/wp-content/uploads/sites/11/2012/06/Handbook-of-Structured-Techniques-in-Marriage-and-Family-Therapy.png using column post_name Authors: Robert Sherman &#38; Norman Fredman. ISBN: 0-87630-424-2 In couple therapy it&#8217;s important that the couple be encouraged and assisted in coming up with their own perturbing solutions to their restricting relationship problems. The therapist &#8220;prescribing&#8221; courses of action may [&#8230;]]]></description>
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<h2>&#8220;Handbook of Structured Techniques in Marriage and Family Therapy&#8221;.</h2><div class='post-thumbnail-290'><img src="https://gaycouplecounselling.com/wp-content/uploads/sites/11/2012/06/Handbook-of-Structured-Techniques-in-Marriage-and-Family-Therapy.png" alt="Handbook of Structured Techniques in Marriage and Family Therapy" class="post-thumb-290" width="290" height="192" /><span class="post-overlay"></span><div id='caption' style='display:none'>Could not find image https://gaycouplecounselling.com/wp-content/uploads/sites/11/2012/06/Handbook-of-Structured-Techniques-in-Marriage-and-Family-Therapy.png using column post_name</div></div>
<h3><strong></strong><em><strong>Authors: Robert Sherman &amp; Norman Fredman.</strong></em></h3>
<p>ISBN: 0-87630-424-2</p>
<p>In couple therapy it&#8217;s important that the couple be encouraged and assisted in coming up with their own perturbing solutions to their restricting relationship problems. The therapist &#8220;prescribing&#8221; courses of action may be helpful, but without the couple&#8217;s own investment in their own recovery, prescriptive advice can become like school homework: it <em>has</em> to be done (or avoided) rather than the couple <em>wanting</em> to do it. Some couples struggle to be creative, though. Having behaved  how they believed they should have been doing (some for decades), being invited to do something different will be a struggle.</p>
<p>In this book &#8211; the authors describe excercises that may give the couple inspiration about what they might invent for themselves.</p>
<p>Each excerise takes the following format:-</p>
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<li>A theoretical base (eg Rationale)</li>
<li>An overview of the exercise.</li>
<li>A description of the procedure (how to do the exercise)</li>
<li>An example.</li>
<li>Suggested uses &#8211; where this exercise might help</li>
<li>A brief bibliography of resources that cover this exercise.</li>
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		<title>Psychoanalytic Therapy &#038; The Gay Man.</title>
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<h2>&#8220;Psychoanalytic Therapy &amp; The Gay Man&#8221;.</h2><div class='post-thumbnail-290'><img src="https://gaycouplecounselling.com/wp-content/uploads/sites/11/2012/06/71Z0V5Y6XGL._SL500_AA300_1.jpg" alt="Psychoanalytic Therapy &#038; The Gay Man." class="post-thumb-290" width="290" height="192" /><span class="post-overlay"></span><div id='caption' style='display:none'>Could not find image https://gaycouplecounselling.com/wp-content/uploads/sites/11/2012/06/71Z0V5Y6XGL._SL500_AA300_1.jpg using column post_name</div></div>
<h3><em><strong>Author: Jack Drescher, M.D.</strong></em></h3>
<p>ISBN: 0-88163-208-2</p>
<p>Jack Descher is a gay man &#8211; and a psychoanalyst.  There was a time when gay men were not allowed to be psychoanalysts because being gay was considered as a mental illness.  Drescher has gathered a lot of information regarding the analytic therapy of gay men and writing as a gay psychoanalyst the book comes across as helpful, friendly and useful.</p>
<p>This was one of the first books we studied regarding therapy and gay men.</p>
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