Gay Couple Counselling for Hampshire Relationships

Havant, Hampshire (UK) and Worldwide (Zoom, Teams, WhatsApp)

Counselling Focussed on Gay Couples (UK)

Welcome to GayCoupleCounselling.com

Counselling Focussed on Gay Couples (UK)

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Counselling for gay couples – GayCoupleCounselling.com is a British-based, world-wide therapy service exclusively for gay and lesbian couples, and couples of mixed-sexuality/mixed-gender.

Whether you’re in a civil-partnership, marriage (as far as your country recognises LGBT marriage), intimate relationships, polyamorous relationship or  platonic friendship and you’re having relationship problems, we’re the people to speak with to help you to get your relationship back on tracks.

Service relocated to Counselling of Gay Couples (LGBTCoupleCounselling.co.uk)…

Why “Gay” Couple Counselling?

As gay people, we live our lives via a similar but distinctly different rules to heterosexual people.

We work with heterosexual people, most of us have heterosexual friends, but our lives are mostly not in a heterosexual society:

  • We have to go through a coming-out process for our intimate relationships to be recognised
  • We don’t necessarily have monogamy at the centre of our intimate relationships.
  • We can’t always fill in those forms where it asks us if we’re married or not (only two choices?) – or when society doesn’t recognise our particular living arrangements.
  • Our attentions are not necessarily turned to buy that car advertised by a nearly-naked woman making suggestions towards the male-customer; we’re gay people living in a mostly-heteronormative society.
As gay men and women, we live our lives with a similar-but-distinctly-different set of rules to our intimate relationships from those of heterosexual people.  When then, when our intimate relationships are in difficulties, would we want to engage in a standard couple therapy service that gives us the impression that ‘man-marries-wife’, or that we suspect have reworded phrases such as “your wife” to “your partner”?

Gay men and lesbian woman have a distinct right to happy relationships – and we are just as much at risk of relationship-conflicts as are any other couple. GayCoupleCounselling.com provides a friendly, helpful and professional service to help and support gay relationships in conflict.

Trust your partnership with our knowledge, understanding and positive-help towards gay couple relationships.

Bonus Article: “How a Gay Couple Counsellor Thinks” (Systemic Methodology) (LGBTCoupleCounselling.co.uk).

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Zoom: Gay Couple Video-Therapy

Zoom: Gay Couple Video-Therapy
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For gay couples who are interested in working with a professionally qualified Gay Couple Therapist via Zoom video counselling sessions, GayCoupleCounselling.com reaches out to work with gay couples throughout the world.

Not looking for online gay couple relationship therapy? Try our Portsmouth in-person Face-to-Face services.

Ideal for:

  • Gay and lesbian couples in a long distance relationship (different towns, counties/states or even different countries).
  • Gay relationships where the couple live away from one of our professionally qualified gay couple Zoom therapists.

Gay Couples use Zoom Video

Our video couple counselling services for LGBT relationships uses Zoom’s “group video” service and is targeted toward gay coupleslesbian couplesmixed-sexuality couples in intimate/committed relationships who wish to use  GayCoupleCounselling.com‘s therapy services but who are either unable to travel to a face-to-face/in-person meeting, or who are in a long-distance relationship.

Long-distance/remote couple relationships are couples who are in separate countries or separate counties/states/towns who wish to work with GayCoupleCounselling.com specifically as a Specialist in LGBT Couples Counselling.

Benefits of Zoom for Counselling

Zoom Video Counselling

  • Not all relationships are in the same home: in the same city, same county/state or even the same country!
  • Long distance couple relationships struggle with conflicts as much as living-together relationships.
  • Working with your partner via Zoom with a qualified & experienced gay couples counsellor can be an appropriate therapy for your relationship problems.
  • The same therapeutic boundaries are maintained: time boundaries, session schedule’s and working practices.

Using Zoom

Most couples prefer to use two devices (eg 2 x computers, a computer and a Zoom-enabled Smart Phone etc…) but if the couple can tolerate to sit very close to each other then a single Zoom camera will suffice;  the couple need to be able to look at each other from time to time The choice to use one or two Zoom devices is yours, though.

Confidentiality & Zoom Video Conference.

Zoom has a position on confidentiality which may effect some couples’ decision to participate in Zoom video conference couple counselling – a version of Microsoft’s is here: https://www.zoom.com/en/trust/privacy/privacy-statement/

 

Time Differences

Zoom couple counselling can be ideal for remote/Long-distant relationships – but we will have to manage any time-differences.

Outside-of-session Contact.

It is sometimes necessary to make contact with the counsellor outside of the sessions (e.g. to cancel or rearrange an appointment). When emailing Dean, best practice is to CC your partner in the email.  Unless it has been agreed otherwise by everyone, individual contact with Dean without the knowledge of the partner is not advisable, but we will manage this as far as possible should it become necessary.

Whilst attempting to engage in contact beyond the time-boundaries and therapy-boundaries is discouraged, we will manage situations as they arise.

Do Video Conference Services permit Counselling?

Video Conference Services do not prohibit counselling and therapy via their communication services.

Contact us today for Gay Couple Video Counselling.

Are you a gay or lesbian couple, a couple in a mixed-sexuality relationship, looking for support and professional assistance in managing your relationship conflicts?

1) Look through the directory for a therapist who you’d like to contact or

2) Contact us to discuss your needs.

Information

Locations for Gay Couple Counselling.

Information
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GayCoupleCounselling.com current offers two locations for counselling:-

    1. Face-to-Face in Portsmouth, Hampshire (UK)
        
    2. Skype video conference from the comfort of your home.

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Fees for Gay Couple Counselling.

We offer a rather unique way to agree a fee with us for your relationship therapy.

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Recommended Literature.

Bibliotherapy (therapy through reading literature) is a valid form of therapy. Some couples find that their relationship can improve by following suggestions in a book, or by recognising something about their behavioour.

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Your Privacy.

Your privacy is important to us.  We outline how we protect your personal information and the use of cookies on this website.

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