Shared Anxieties – Unconscious Collusion in Gay Relationships

Posted by on 6 Sep, 2012 in Couple Processes, Gay Relationships | 0 comments

Shared Anxieties – Unconscious Collusion in Gay Relationships

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The Unconscious Timelessness of Wounded Memories.

Shared Anxieties – Unconscious Collusion in Gay Relationships
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… the unconscious attempts to help us resolve past wounds by influencing us into recreating their creation…
You may be aware of some of your friends or workmates who have always seemed unlucky in love. No matter which new partner they get involved with, the same relationship troubles arise again and again.  Whether it’s a form of abuse, or betrayal, or other unhappy repeating experiences.  

It’s almost as if it were destiny – but I’m suggesting it’s intentional … and it’s being created by our unconsciousness.

But for what purpose?  

Let me suggest to you that the purpose is to resolve the past.

You see, because we believe that the unconscious holds historical experiences in a kind of “timeless” way, we have come to understand that one of the ways the unconscious attempts to help us out with resolving those past wounds is to recreate their creation … in the present.  We can’t go back to fix the problems there, so we have to bring the “there” into the “now”.

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